103+ BDSM Quotes And Sayings for Kinky Lovers

Do you enjoy the thrill of BDSM? If so, you’re not alone! This type of experience can be incredibly exciting and satisfying. If you’re looking for some inspiration, check out these 103+ BDSM quotes. These quotes will help get you in the mood for some kinky fun!

BDSM Quotes And Sayings

1. “I love You wet.”Lay down on your back.
2. “Now close your eyes. I want To play.”
3. “Be Her anchor and make Her feel safe.”
4. “We are not finished yet. Not even close.”
5. Fear can be a potent aphrodisiac. – Kele Moon
6. Have you gone crazy. Have you gone crazy Master.
7. You so need a Daddy little girl. – Breanna Hayse
8. “I will give You what You are afraid To ask for.”
9. Punishment is not truly a discipline. – Cherise Sinclair
10. “Kiss Her in a way that shows Her How badly You want her.”
11. Paul begged for it harder. Danny gave it to him. – Kele Moon
12. I love you baby girl. When youre sad I am too. – Darla Phelps
13. “I want To change. I have become wet trying To hide from you.”
14. “She is a natural submissive, and she does not even have a clue.”
15. “But I wasnt done she pouted no longer hungry for anything but him.”
16. “Kiss her in a way that shows her how badly you want her.” – Unknown
17. “No. No I dont want my hands restrained. Yes. You do.” – Cherise Sinclair
18. “Of course it hurts its a spanking. How else would it work” – Breanna Hayse
19. A good Daddy Dom will take you by the hand and guide you through the dark.
20. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven. – Anonymous
21. “When I wanted, He ran his finger over Her lips. You don’t get a vote, babe.”
22. You are the evil scientist of your desires. Ignacio Rivera – Tristan Taormino
23. “She was significantly light; He could hold Her all night without any problem.”
24. I need you. Every pore of my being is begging. This is what we do. – E.L. James
25. “The primary job Of dominance is To seduce consent from the bottom continually.”
26. “Opening his arms, he said quietly to her, ‘Disappear here.'” – Jonathan Carroll
27. “He was so pleased with her, so proud Of her, in love with Her whatever love was.”
28. “It was ideal for Her To submit To things that were not for Her pleasure but his.”
29. “A good Daddy Dom will take You by your hand and then guide You through the dark.”
30. She was so light he could hold her all night without a problem. – Cherise Sinclair
31. You have a gorgeous ass and it holds handprints beautifully. Oh well how nice for me.
32. “She was 80% kitten and 20% lioness, and He considered it his task To make Her roar.”
33. “A good Daddy Dom will take you by the hand and guide you through the dark.” – Unknown
34. “I have a mind that turns You over my knee and then spank the spoiled hell out Of you.”
35. Were wasting time here. Ive got a sweet ass to paddle. Some legs to spread – Starla Kaye
36. “You have a gorgeous ass, and it holds handprints beautifully. Oh well, How nice for me.”
37. I’ve got a mind to turn you over my knee and spank the spoiled hell out of you – Larissa Ione
38. In other words,’ he continues, ‘I want you at my mercy, kitten. And I intend to make you purr.’
39. When I want to. He ran his finger over her lips. You dont get a vote honey. – Cherise Sinclair
40. Okay, even if she deserved to be punished he always let her know he cared about her. – Starla Kaye
41. The number one job of the dominant is to continually seduce consent from the bottom. – Joseph Bean
42. Theo was so pleased with her so proud of her. In love with her whatever love was. – Annabel Joseph
43. “I’ll give you what you’re afraid to ask for.” – Elizabeth Barrette, “What You’re Afraid to Ask For”
44. It was good for her though to submit to things that werent for her pleasure but his. – Annabel Joseph
45. “While He assumed she naturally submits To him, He believed she was still Her person. A strong person.”
46. “I won’t abandon you… and you can damn well know that I’m going to fight for you.” – Rachel Van Dyken, “Pull”
47. “When I’m finished, you’ll barely be able to stand me not being inside of you.” – Casey Quinn, “Girl With Guitar”
48. Use your safe word if you get scared honey. Im fine. Her voice came out husky. Yes you are, arent you – Cherise Sinclair
49. “Consider using your safe words, babe, if You feel scared. I’m fine. Her voice came out husky. Yes, you are, aren’t you?”
50. “It is going To hurt. Yes, it is. Am I allowed To call You names? It was very hard not To laugh—impertinent little brat.”
51. “He snaked his arm around Her waist and then pulled Her into him with unyielding strength. She would be unmistakably seized.”
52. He needed the hand on his shoulder the kiss to his temple and the hot ragged breath of his Master over his face. – Casey K. Cox
53. “He took one look at her and he knew she was the perfect kind of trouble: a good girl who knew exactly when to be bad.” – Unknown
54. “The girl was eighty percent kitten and twenty percent lioness, and he considered it his mission to make her roar.” – Kitty French
55. “It is as if the blinders To his vision have been lifted and that He wants To make up for every moment the two Of them had missed.”
56. This is going to hurt isnt it. Yes it is. Am I allowed to call you names.It was very very hard not to laugh. Impertinent little brat.
57. “I need your submission as well, but only if it is real. If You are not feeling it, then there is no need To pretend. Make me earn it.”
58. I need your submission too but only if its real. If youre really not feeling it then dont pretend. Make me earn it. – Bianca Sommerland
59. I will teach you in time but for now restrain me and have your way with me. I dont want to think I just want to feel. Jake – Laci Paige
60. Although he assumed shed naturally submit to him he obviously believed she was still her own person. A strong person. – Cherise Sinclair
61. It was as if the blinders to his vision had been lifted and he wanted to make up for every moment the two of them had missed. – Kele Moon
62. “Do you understand now that it is the man that matters, not any fancy room or intimidating props?” – Jason Luke, “Interview With a Master”
63. Some man would come to her room. Maybe she would hesitate and hed grab her pin her to the mattress force her to cooperate. – Cherise Sinclair
64. Now I really feel sorry for her. Your hand is as bad as Robs paddle Cassie shuddered Thank you. I didnt mean it as a compliment – Breanna Hayse
65. In that moment he needed to consume her, to fill her, to mark her as his … just as she needed to open herself to him, to be desired, taken, owned.
66. When a man truly loves a woman she becomes his weakness. When a woman truly loves a man he becomes her strength. This is called Exchange of Power.
67. Put me down. Nope. He held her snuggled to his bare chest tipping her up so he could rub his cheek against hers. I like carrying you. – Cherise Sinclair
68. “At that moment, he wanted To consume her, To fill her, To make Her as his… just when she wanted To open herself To him, To be desired, taken ownership.”
69. “When a man truly loves a woman she becomes his weakness. When a woman truly loves a man he becomes her strength. This is called Exchange of Power.” – Unknown
70. “In that moment he needed to consume her, to fill her, to mark her as his … just as she needed to open herself to him, to be desired, taken, owned.” – Unknown
71. “I hate when people think I’m some pain freak just because I love BDSM. No, it is the psychological side Of it that I love. That does not mean I’m being punched.”
72. He certainly seemed to have all the qualities of a gentleman, but the interesting kind who knows exactly when to stop behaving like one. – Michael Dibdin, “Medusa”
73. “He certainly seemed to have all the qualities of a gentleman, but the interesting kind who knows exactly when to stop behaving like one.” – Michael Dibdin, “Medusa”
74. “A collar represents something Of great importance To her. He knew she saw it as losing who she was. He saw it as Her trusting him enough To allow him To be in charge.”
75. Opening his arms, he said quietly to her, ‘Disappear here.’
76. When I’m finished, you’ll barely be able to stand me not being inside of you.” – Casey Quinn, “Girl With Guitar”
77. Do you know about it Kelsey he asked after a while. Dominance and submission This thing were doing I dont know so good how to explain it. Only how to do it. – Annabel Joseph
78. The collar represented something of big importance to her. He knew she saw it as losing who she was. He saw it as her trusting him enough to let him be in charge. – Starla Kaye
79. “When a man has a true love for a woman, she becomes his weakness. And when a woman has a true passion for a man, He becomes Her strength. It is known as the exchange Of power.”
80. “I urge You today, particularly during these times Of war and chaos, To live yourself without any reservation and to love each other without restraint unless You are into leather.”
81. “I would like To touch a part Of You that no one has ever touched. I want To own a piece Of You that is To be discovered. Therefore, You should stop resisting. Let go and let it happen.”
82. You spanked me she told him. I did. He lifted her shoulders high enough to push a wedge pillow under the pad. And I enjoyed it very much. You have a very spankable ass no – Cherise Sinclair
83. “Your job is to obey my will, follow my directions exactly and immediately. Mine is to make sure you don’t have to focus on anything other than that. Understand?” – Joey W. Hill, “Unrestrained”
84. I knew instantly that I wanted that type of love in my life. To have someone I could take care of in every sense and who would trust me to do so. No matter what I asked of them. – Breanna Hayse
85. Why are you so determined to keep your wild silently inside you? Let it breathe. Give it a voice. Let it roll out of you on the wide open waves. Set it free. – Jeanette LeBlanc, “Raging Rhetoric”
86. I urge you all today especially today during these times of chaos and war to love yourself without reservations and to love each other without restraint. Unless youre into leather. – Margaret Cho
87. “Why are you so determined to keep your wild silently inside you? Let it breathe. Give it a voice. Let it roll out of you on the wide open waves. Set it free.” – Jeanette LeBlanc, “Raging Rhetoric”
88. “In other words,’ he continues, ‘I want you at my mercy, kitten. And I intend to make you purr.'” – J. Kenner, “Tame Me: A Stark International Security Novella (Stark International Trilogy Book 1)”
89. He took one look at her and he knew she was the perfect kind of trouble: a good girl who knew exactly when to be bad.
90. I won’t abandon you, and you can damn well know that I’m going to fight for you.
91. Her secret desire is to be ravished, lovingly forced open in unbearable pleasure, and taken fully open to love by a man of deep spiritual wisdom, strength, humor, sensitivity and integrity. – David Deida
92. To have to perform a scene a punishment scene like that was extremely unpleasant. It bothered me to hurt you Jessica he growled. You will let me hold you and offer me some comfort in return. – Cherise Sinclair
93. Adrian had always found it amusing that a guy could be drilling Stacia up her ass while she considered herself to be a virgin. Her intent had been to present herself as such when she found Mr. Right. – Jess C. Scott
94. The idea makes a lot of people uncomfortable. … Its hurt a great many people and been responsible for a great deal of misery. But to my mind at least that doesnt mean it cant now bring pleasure to someone. – Manna Francis
95. “Her secret desire is to be ravished, lovingly forced open in unbearable pleasure, and taken fully open to love by a man of deep spiritual wisdom, strength, humor, sensitivity and integrity.” – David Deida. “Love and Fear”
96. Men love a submissive woman Damon said simply. Even when they say the dont. Theres just something about a beautiful soft woman looking to them to protect and take care of them that inspires a man to greatness. – Maya Banks
97. Im happy to see that were stopping to eat some dinner since we didnt actually eat lunch today. Instead we just argued I pouted slapped him bojod him and then I came like a freight train. Ive had a very busy day. – Ella Dominguez
98. Submissive men men who desire to serve as consensual slaves are on one of the most difficult journeys in the world today because they have rejected patriarchal privilege and embraced their own hearts calling instead. – TammyJo Eckhart
99. “There are times she is kneeling out of obedience, reverence and respect. Those are the times it is okay to stand above her. But when she is kneeling because the weight of the world is just too heavy to bear … that is when You should be kneeling beside her.” – Unknown
100. “You are mine. The minute I asked you To spread those legs and You did, You were mine. When I asked you To beg for it, and You did it, You were mine. When I put your hands behind your back without being told, I owned you. You did not have To say any word. You are a natural submissive.”
101. “She’s the one tied to the bed, yet everything she gives to me … her willing submission to my Dominance, her immersion in the pleasure I provide, her complete trust in my protection … keeps me bound with ties far stronger than physical. She is my submissive. She completes me.” – Shayne McClendon, “Always The Good Girl”
102. “You’re mine. The minute I told you to spread your legs and you did it, you were mine. When I told you to beg for it and you did, you were mine. When you put your hands behind your back without being told, I owned you. You never had to say a word. You’re a natural submissive.” – C.D. Reiss, “One Night With Him: Jonathan and Monica’s Story (The Submission Series Book 1)”
103. “I refuse To be the leader. I do not want To be the leader. I would like To live richly and darkly in my femaleness. I want a man that will be lying over me and always over me. His pleasure, his will, his life, his desire, his sexuality, his work, the command, my pivot. I will not mind working, holding my ground artistically, intellectually; as a woman, I want To be dominated. I will not mind being told To stand on my feet and not To cling, be all that I’m capable Of doing; however, I’m going To be f*cked, pursued, possessed by the will Of a man at his time and his bidding.”
104. “Any man can grab a woman by her hair, throw her on the bed, and rip her clothing off. Sure he can tie her up, call her a ” or a ” and have rough with her. But that is not dominance … that’s rough , maybe even violent . If she’s into it, it can even be fun but that’s still not true dominance. True dominance is the ability to whisper softly in her ear then observe as she obediently removes her clothing. Methodically … one piece at a time. Watching as she kneels before you offering her entire self to you. Willingly, without hesitation or reservation. She will show you her most vulnerable self without embarrassment or shame. You will know that nothing makes her happier than making you happy …” – AlterEgo​

Wrapping Up

Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just starting out, we hope these BDSM quotes have inspired you to explore your kinky side. Remember, always play safe and have fun! Do you have any favorite BDSM quotes? Share them in the comments below!